Shall I? Shan’t I? Have you ever wanted to wear a gorgeous outfit but you talked yourself out of it because you were concerned what others might think? Or wanted to share a video or record a Facebook Live – but worried what kind of reaction you would get? I know I have.
Don’t let the negative self talk stop you from showing up and stealing your truth.
Last week I was in sunny Cyprus with Andrew – and as you’ll remember one of my personal negative stories I’ve been telling myself for years, was that in my 50’s with scars, cellulite, a wobbly midlife midriff… I wasn’t comfortable to be seen in a bikini and so have hidden in one piece swimsuits.
So on this holiday, I decided to call out that limiting belief for what it was and showed up poolside wearing my new bikinis.
How did it feel? I felt very nervous when I took off my cover up.
Did anyone gasp in horror? NO
Did anyone even notice? NO
Did the world stop turning? NO
Did I survive? YES!!
Did I feel good after a short while? YES really good!! I felt GREAT! And it felt totally empowering to breaking a limiting belief!
Now, you may not bat an eyelid about wearing a bikini – and that’s great.
But I wonder: Where are you holding yourself back and not showing up fully?
I want to encourage you to be braver this week.
How will you be more visible in your life and in your business?
What’s the outcome you would love to have?
Are you ‘walking your talk’?
To help you feel braver, download, read and take action using the the second recent free workbook which I created for you ‘How To Overcome The Fear Of Being Visible’.
Inside I’ll reveal to you:
- Why you fear being visible
- Coaching questions to ask yourself
- How to overcome the fear
- And how to receive empowering messages from your female ancestors
I’ve already had much positive feedback about the guide and workbook – it’s given some a much needed ‘nudge’, others have said it’s been ‘great advice’ and that they are now ‘taking action’ – and that it’s inspiring to see me ‘walking my talk’.
Let me know how you intend to be braver this week? Tag me in any of your social media posts or email me to let me know!! I’ll be cheering you on and doing my best happy dance for you!